The second night syndrome
THE SECOND NIGHT AFTER YOUR BABY'S BIRTH- what's happening to my calm baby and how do we deal? No family is immune from the second night struggle bus. Let's first dive into why it happens and next strategies to get through it.
Your baby was cozy as could be in your uterus until it was issued its notice to evacuate. Delivery was a huge shock to baby and because of that they're exhausted (and so are you!) The first 12-24 hours baby is likely super sleepy and calm, but the second night rolls around and your baby isn't acting like the night before. They aren't sleeping right after feedings, hard to comfort, won't sleep in their bassinet and seemingly starving. They're HOMESICK.
Your perfect uterus was their home for their whole lives and they miss the constant movement, warmth, your heartbeat and steady stream of food. Think of it like your first time away from home as a child. You were excited about the chance to get away but reality sets in, and you miss home like crazy.
Of course there are a handful of exceptions that time up with the second night that could be something else. Lean on your care team and speak up if your mom gut is telling you something is off.
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